How To Write Effective LinkedIN Invitations?

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Story 1:
After receiving multiple reminders telling you that you have a package to pick up, you call the company who let you know that the package is actually a free water tester kit that they’ll bring to you to test your water and then offer you service to improve your water at home.

Story 2:
You are waiting for important feedbacks from your prospects regarding the response you sent to assess their business inquiries. You then hear an email notification while you’re making your morning coffee. You rushing to your desktop, opening your browser, and discover mail  from someone in Africa who received a million dollar inheritance and need your help (i.e: bank account details) to recover it.

Uncomfortable truth: “We are surrounded by scams!” We’ve been the victims of cold calling/emailing or scam techniques and schemes for decades, now we can smell the sale from miles away. Today I will focus on LinkedIN’s most important feature: invitations.

LinkedIN is my favorite engagement tool. Unlike Facebook, Twitter or Instagram It aims at people who are down for business and networking. I’ve already told you about the 3 Things We Are Doing Wrong On LinkedIN let’s go deeper

  1. Profiles : a total stranger has put some time and effort to write his story (LinkedIN bio), please read it carefully! At least read the headline, ads that sell have short and efficient headlines. Once you’ll start reading it, you’ll ask genuine questions. Especially if you both share common activity fields. Note these questions down. They’ll be helpful.
  2. Activity : Activities are key elements on LinkedIN, they will tell you how many followers people got, the articles they put online, their likes  and comments.
  3. Groups : like Seth Godin said: “we are all part of a tribe”. I love marketing and advertising, social media and design. Where will I find professionals talking and sharing stories about the things I really care about and giving me the opportunity to bounce off ideas? In LinkedIN Groups! If you we are part of the same tribe, chances are our conversations will be interesting.
  4. Causes: what are your passions? Art and culture? Sports? Music? Animal lover?
    If you do, let me tell you something: we are already friends, but you don’t know it!

Now you know four aspects to take your engagement skill further. LinkedIN is all about connections and sending the right invitations to the right people. How to send and personalise an invitation? My friend and LinkedIN expert Viveka Van Rosen can help you do that.

A good advice: stay creative. Remind yourself that you are a stranger and an intruder on the wrong side of the gun. To sparkle my curiosity -and keep me from pulling the trigger 🙂 – tell me who you are: How did you find my profile? Did I say something interesting in it? Do we have connection in common? Are we in the same group? Did you like a post or comment I wrote? So many ways. Be original, make me smile or laugh in 300 characters. If you write a quote, instead of running your polite “looking forward to read from you” jargon you’re on a great start: “Great minds think alike”.

Should you copy and paste invitations? Sure, especially if you have a lot of them to send over! Just tweak them a bit to show that you really care. And please…oh please…spell my name correctly : Denzel and Lionel aren’t the same person. I wish they were! 🙂

Practice, practice, practice!  A great source of inspiration could be dialogue from movies, tv shows, even books/comics! Look how strangers start a conversation with a character you like.

An invitation example could go like this:
Hi XXXX
I just liked your comment in regard to __________. I hold a similar viewpoint. I wish to connect with people on the same wave length. Hope we’ll share interesting conversations around ________. Happy to connect!

In conclusion, what undermine our success is the obvious things we know but miss everyday. Make a goal to send five genuine LinkedIN connections everyday. Track your failure/success rate and adjust.

We all hate underhanded marketing and time-wasters. We get interrupted all the time, even by LinkedIN invitations coming from nowhere! YOU are the product. I strongly believe that you can help someone out there – out of your country –  by contacting directly and honestly and maybe -I’m sure!- a great conversation will follow!

Your turn! Please, inspire us now! Share your stories and some examples of your best invitations, the ones that worked for you, in the comment section below!

3 Things You Are Doing Wrong On LinkedIN

There was a time, not so long ago, before the invention of the internet or  e-mail, when we used to write letters. We used to sit down and write with passion and strong empathy, because we knew that it would take weeks before our correspondents get that mail. When it will arrive? Will they get it? How will they feel when they’ll read it?  The anxiety was real. These are the common things most people do and that will undermine your success on LinkedIN.


Sending too much (not personal) invitations.

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Ever asked your contact to introduce you to another contact and as an answer you got: “I absolutely have no idea who that is!” Social media is not about the numbers it’s about great conversations. I used to think that the more connections I could get, the better. I was totally wrong. People have absolutely no reason to accept your invitation just for the sake of accepting it, the only question they are asking is: will you solve my problem?

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Don’t connect yet!

There are easy steps you can take to maximize your chances of interaction on LinkedIN:
1-Go read their profile: don’t scan it. Read from top to bottom where their interests are.
2-Always send a personal invitation: introduce yourself, the reason you are contacting them, use “you” instead of “I”, add humor in your message, make it short. The next time you see a profile and that blue button “connect” which is screaming for a click, don’t. You have the choice in the app and website to custom your invitation, use it.
3-Say thank you! A person stopped his activity to accept your request, it’s an opportunity to engage. Be thankful!

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Custom it

Wrong answer to endorsements.
Endorsement are powerful on LinkedIN as they validate your expertise, and they are free! But why this is what I get 90% of the time I endorse someone: “Thanks for endorsing me for _________”. That’s it. End of conversation.  Can you do better?


Saying congratulations or well wishes to strangers.
My agency celebrated its 10th anniversary a month ago. That day was fun, I was overwhelmed by the number of messages I received. Thank you! Unfortunately, they were almost all the same: “Congrats on the anniversary, I hope you are doing well.” and I’d go like “Well that’s very nice of you, I’m well thanks! How’s your day/activity going?” Aaannnnd…no answer. Please don’t spam the “Congrats” button if you are not keen to engage with someone. It’s like showing up at birthday party -without a gift 🙂 – and leave in the minute. LinkedIN placed that button for you to use it very carefully.


One more thing: remove some connections.
You can’t please everyone, thank God! Learn to ditch -politely-  your LinkedIN connections. Let them know that you’re still open to conversation by leaving your email for example. Don’t chase people: send one message, wait and set a follow up reminder. If
at the second message they still don’t respond, send them an email apologizing and reminding them that you tried to contact them. After that, don’t be a pest let them go and move on. LinkedIN is about motion.

Of course this is a short list, I can’t wait to learn from you. How do you deal with your social interactions and engagement?  Let me know in the comment section below.
Have a blessed day my friend!

Artists Why Are You So Expensive?

“You are too expensive! I can’t afford your services! If I advertise your business will I get a discount?” All around the World, same song; same old objections we –artists- are getting every day.


My answer: “How are you going to advertise an advertiser? It is part of our daily job to prospect, sell, promote ourselves and your business. Why would we need you, dear client, to do so?”

I’m baffled. Clients are calling you because they need your expertise. When a meeting is set up and you go to their place of business, I have one advice to give to you: keep your eyes and your ears open.
What type of cars do you see in the parking lot? How many employees in the office? How many computers, the furniture?

Did you came all this way -to nice venues- to sell yourself short? You have bills to pay, a family, your computer is getting old, you need a car, your Adobe subscription is running and you are daydreaming on the latest Wacom Cintiq 24HD. Yes, you have also needs. Remember, you are THE expert, and they need you to solve their problems.

If you are intimidated by these objections, your clients will see that, and exploit your weakness. Sad to also bring the bad news to you: you will never succeed in your industry.

The client’s job is to buy quality at cheap prices. Your job is to provide quality at right –and exponential- prices.
If they say you are too expensive, why feeling guilty? It’s a good sign! You should start worrying if a client sign your check right away without objecting, then you know you’ve failed!

I’d like to recommend a great read to you The Little Red Book Of Selling by Jeffrey Gitomer, one of my heroes, it helps me gaining confidence and persuasion in front of nightmarish clients.

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